I realize that I seem to share an awful lot of my screw ups on this blog. One of the things that I learned from Hattersley very early on was that it is our screw ups that gives us our humanity. His philosophy was that by sharing or confessing, whichever, our faux pas we gave others the opportunity to accept their own humanity. I liked that idea then and I like it now. It is my gift to you to know that you are not alone. As my older brother frequently says, "No need to send candy." And no, I do not know why he says that.